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I created a small album with a few pictures of her for Easter, so was so cute, white gloves and hat

Today we stopped by Addy's b-day party, she is one of Laia's friends. Was in an apartment south of Canal St. downtown. We couldn't stay long b/c we had a few errands to run, but was nice.

BTW, in case I had not mentioned it, I have been watching The Walking Dead, per my brother's recommendation, and I am hooked. I am on the second season now, very cool show.

I just processed a few pictures from last weekend with Laia sitting down on one of our living room chairs

Fascinating, top #1 answer on Quora:

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You see, characters on Seinfeld have no conscience. They are truly liberated from the guilt tactics that society and morality impose on us as individuals to make us conform. Jerry, George, Elaine and Kramer are modern-day hunter-gatherers, acting in pure self-interest and foraging for day-to-day satisfaction. They don't have an inherent perception of right and wrong; they work simply to further their own aims.

But you can't live like that in the real world, can you?
You cannot dump girlfriends for having 'manly hands' or noisy digestion,
You cannot 'gift' used wheelchairs to disabled people,
You cannot have sex with the cleaning lady on your office desk,
You cannot replace a sable hat with a ratskin hat,
without being lectured on what is ethical or righteous. In real life you cannot escape being judged in the grand scheme of things. And that gets stifling after a bit.

That is also where shows like Seinfeld step in.

While today we spend our real lives figuring out how to manage reputation, limit conflict, and achieve mental and ideological consistency, Seinfeld offers a very liberating fiction: it is a world without morals, without responsibility, without commitment, without ideology and above all, without a hope or desire for redemption. The show is a giant fuck you to the highly evolved social order that trains individuals to make sacrifices and work towards some common good, under a fuzzy premise of righteousness.

Of course, one could argue that Seinfeld downplays the noble ideas of empathy and sacrifice, in favour of nihilism and/or hedonism. But, really, that is the idea. Because there is no dearth of preachy, stereotypical, and downright condescending content on TV. We may be social animals, but we are still animals. In Seinfeld, the sheer daring of the characters to flout what is acceptable and normal, quickly helps us warm up to them:

"I don't know how, or under what circumstances, the four of you found each other, but your callous indifference and utter disregard for everything that is good and decent has rocked the very foundation upon which our society is built." - Judge Art Vandelay, in "The Finale"

And amazingly, Seinfeld does this without a single swear word, act of violence, or dash of ego. The show basically says: We all suck; we just try not to.

Not that there's anything wrong with that.